What you do when you are in a relation and constantly facing ups and downs? You try to fix them up, by any mean. And why you do that because you love that person very much and you wish to make his life better. Here I'm specifically talking about girl and guy relationship.
So how do you start solving the problem, occurring in a relationship? You start it with analyzing yourself. Because love is blind and therefore you just cant see any flaws in your soul mate. And moreover if you are a bit emotional and sensitive, then definitely you would feel the problem with yourself and start working on it. But along with that incase if you see any flaw in your partner, you try to cover up that as well. Rather than complaining to him about it. Just because the core issue is to maintain the relationship, hold onto it.
But what if it works in the opposite direction .That things instead of getting better, just start worsening up. What if your relationship is still hanging in the air? And your partner still feels that you are becoming a burden upon him/her. And despite your every effort, the gap continues to increase.
Well in such case, either you get tired and just stop expressing or your love turns into obsession .like it becomes a challenge for you to get that person on any cost. And while doing that you just go on hurting yourself. Because things might get better in between but then again fights, that ultimately leaves you in a confused state of happiness and depression.
Now here is something very important that you have to know. Firstly stop assessing yourself, as in blaming yourself for every other problem that occurs in your relationship. Because dude it's not you, it's him/her who has the problem with you or in fact with themselves, not you. Your self being is very valuable, and if someone doesn't cares for it then obviously he's a fool. Why do you have to beg him/her to give you value. Therefore just stop convincing that person to be affectionate towards you or to take care of you. He/she doesn't deserve you, so just stop chasing him.
And secondly dear, the problem is that deep down inside, you are well aware of all these things. But human nature, we find justifications for our acts always. So dear here it is. You just have to decide now, that you wont bear anymore insult and humiliation from that person and would move on with your life. There is definitely someone better out there for you.
And it's because that you want to be satisfied with your decision of moving on, you are reading this article. So honey, don't just read it. Understand it and be firm on your decision. So finally be happy and love yourself, as life's beautiful.
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