Why Independent Women Freak Men
In today’s world, a lot have changed due to education and
technology advancement. These changes act as an equal opportunity and have affected
everyone regardless of the person age or gender. Since now we all hold the keys to
our own destiny, a new group of women has come up as independent women who
don’t depend on their men for upkeep. It’s usually made up of educated women or
successful business women. This has changed the men egos, and their
perspectives of women in relationships.
The more successful “manly” a woman becomes the less
attractive she is to most men and like wise--the more unsuccessful “womanly” a
man becomes the less attractive he is to women. People seem to fail to
acknowledge that LOVE is internal and Money, education, material wealth, fame
is all vanity! Love is the deepest emotion, and if expressed freely, transcends
all boundaries and will not be intimidated by financial success.
Most men are intimidated by smart educated women, I was
watching Tyra show it was hilarious and she had a bunch of single men and she
asked each of them about first dates and first impressions. Most of the guys
did not want a woman who was too smart especially on the first date. They
wanted the women to play moderately; most guys age mate of these ladies are not
that financially stable. On the intimidation point, I also think it also
depends on how much the man in question has achieved himself. It's not very
common that you find a man employed as a customer-service rep getting married
to a female company director, for example. That means a woman's pool of
potential suitors shrinks as she advances in her career...it's unfortunate, but
it's just the way it is.
Successful career women don't leave their plum
jobs to pure chance to start a family. Of course it took many years of
relentless studying, hard work, seeking advice and prayers too! So why should
this be any different? Independent lady in such a question needs to come with a
concrete plan on how to get and what man she wants without repelling a
potential suitor. They are usually rude and un-needy to seek a man; Happiness
in relationship also doesn't also occur unless you actively seek for it. When dumped
that’s when they realize that it takes more than love alone to sustain a marriage/life-long
relationship.
Let's not forget that
one shouldn't shut down their social life until their career is set and then
start looking for a soul-mate at appointed time. That will always put you at
some kind of disadvantage “out of market” most men assume women over 30 are not
productive. When you ditch that college-sweetheart because your career comes
first, but that may come back to haunt you! Life is all about balance.
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