Hey Men! How To Successfully Flirt On Line!

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Many of the same things work for online flirting that work for "brick and mortar" flirting and all relationships begin with successful flirting.

If you go too far, she will label you "slimy". If you don't go far enough, she will label you "wimpy".  So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?  All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site, right? 

1. Have fun!  Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining.  Make her eager to talk to you again.  Flirting is playful. 

2. Ooze confidence.  Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life.  You need to transmit the "feel good" factor.  An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies. 

3. Compliment her...and do it often and sincerely.  Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself.  She will want to spend more time with you and if she pays you a compliment say "thank you".  Do Not be self depreciating. 

4. Listen...listen....listen.  Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions.  Get her to open up and talk about herself.  Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her.  Works wonders!

5. Don't be rude.  Flirting does not include being sexually explicit nor taking offence if the lady isn't responding to you. If she isn't interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect.  If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach. 

6. Send an email after you chat.  This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting. 

Get the edge in your on line dating and maybe you'll find your real soul mate. If not, you will surely have lots of fun trying!

Jim DeSantis is a retired investigative journalist. Jim publishes a free ebook, Online Dating Bliss in 5 Easy Steps - here -  that covers the positives and negatives of on line dating. No email or signup required. Jim also edits a blog about Relationships - here - that provides more free information.

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