How to Know What You Are Feeling Is Love

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  What is the cardinal difference between love and in love? Love is a very strong emotion.It is going beyond yourself and stretching who you are for someone else.Certainly, loving somebody is not the same as being 'in love' with that person or any other.Being in love entails seeing someone as you wish they were: to love them is to see who they really are and still care for them.You can 'love' your brother or sister, but you are ‘in love’ with your husband or wife. The feeling of ‘in love’ is connected with romance.Being in love usually is used in a romantic sense when you meet your significant other transforming a normal relationship into a deeper one without further interest in others.

  Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person, know that person is with you through thick and thin, isn't afraid to be seen with you. make sure they treat you right.When you say that you love someone or something, you can even say that you love a particular resort or your dog or even your favorite doll. But when you say you are ‘in love’, it usually conveys the meaning that you have given your heart to someone and think passionately about that person.

  When you become a parent, love automatically flows within you, and though you may not be explicit about it, you will feel upset if your baby is upset and this continues for your lifetime. However, being ‘in love’ can also be temporary madness.

  When the spouses or partners are in love with each other, then slowly the roots start getting deeper. After the initial years, things season out and the leaves fall, but what is left is the tree – which you discover is one and not two. So when ‘in love’ is burned out, love is left.

  When you are ‘in love’ with someone, you feel that your life will fall apart if that person is not there in your life. Your love grows everyday and that person starts having a significant part in your life. You may become dependent on his or her decisions, feel lonely without them or cry when they are not around. However, simply loving someone means that you will protect that person because they mean a lot to you. But your life won’t fall apart if that person is not near you.

Inthe subsequent part of this article I would reveal more powerful tips on how to avoid one-sided love.Don't miss it.

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Thanks for reading

Onuorah Chukwu

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