What Men Should Think About Woman Attractiveness Vs Character

Thu, 14 Jan 2010 23:43:08 EST

I don't have many natural talents, but there is one I dohave: I may not tell you if something's going to work, but I can darnsure tell you when something's going to go wrong.

I have a nose for disaster, and I can smell it a mile away. It's servedme very well, and it will serve you well too if you make it your business togrow such a nose.

I remember my teacher, long ago coach of my school football team said, "In football it's not how many good plays you make that determines whether you win. It's how many bad plays you don't make." So we were always trying tooavoiding mistakes that would allow the other team to score.

Few people think like this--except for successful people. Success is oftennot about doing something spectacular, it's often about not doing somethingspectacularly bad. Just think about having a glamorous woman with dirtycharacter!

Nowhere is this more important than when it comes to attraction. Women have away of blinding men with their beauty, sexiness and allure, preventing themfrom seeing the disaster headed their way.

Many, many men face costly divorces and nasty break ups could be prevented ifthey didn't happen in the first place. Yet men continue to blindly chargeinto situations destined to blow up. And if they'd only think aboutavoiding bad plays, they'd recognize the situation and avoid it.

For example, if a woman has cheated on her past three husbands (and told you),don't you think it's a good bet she'll cheat on #4? Or if she alwaysdrinks too much and starts fights, don't you think she'll do that in arelationship?

If she spends all her money and demands the men in her life foot the bill forher, don't you think the time will come where will extend her hand to you, palmup?

Dudes, you can't be blinded by beauty in the moment. You've got to thinkabout potential bad plays, things other men don't think about. Some women arevery clever and only use their sexuality to ride on men successes.

It's usually by avoiding the bad character that, in the end, we get around to findingthe good character. And that's not happenstance or random chance--it's askill I highly suggest you develop.

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What Men Should Think About Woman Attractiveness Vs Character