What To Do When She Says She Has a Boyfriend or Talks To Him

Thu, 14 Jan 2010 23:38:03 EST

If there's one thing I've learned about women and boyfriends, it's that a "boyfriend" pretty much means nothing. I hadone she said it and still wants me! The lesson is, women will resolve the"boyfriend issue" on their own if they want to spend time with you.

Now, do I advocate actively trying to steal a woman who's ina committed relationship? No. No I do not. But when a womanyou like casually tells you she has a "boyfriend," you should pay no attentionto that.

Oftentimes women will just tell you that to see if you're man enough not to let some ethereal boyfriend stop you. So, theanswer here is to do what you want, and ignore the mention of a boyfriend. Go out with her, have a good time, and see what happens. She'lldeal with the boyfriend issue on her own. It's
her problem, not yours!

If you are in a relationship with a women that likes to keepold boyfriends around. She keeps telling you that so and so is texting her orcalling her.

The thing to do is to use this as an opportunity to solidifyher attraction for you. You never want to be possessive, jealous, orsnoopy, but you also do want to remind her subtly how fortunate she is to be witha man like you.

First off, don't worry about old boyfriends. If you make sure her needsare met, there's not much they can do. Secondly, if a woman wants tocheat, she'll find a way to do it regardless of what you do--so don't worryabout it. The key here is "wants" to cheat--if her needs are met byyou, she won't.

Whenever they call, just laugh and say, "Talking to the desperate littleboys again? When you're done, come spend some time with the only real manyou know." Obviously you have to say this in a fun, playful,non-jealous way, but if do so, it will remind her how good she has it with incontrast to the flies that keep hanging around.

She'll get the message, loud and clear...and she'll appreciate it.

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What To Do When She Says She Has a Boyfriend or Talks To Him