Why Bad Boys Win Good Girls

Wed, 03 Jun 2009 12:34:29 EST

Many People wonder why the bad boys end up with the goodgirls love and beauty advantages. This is a question everyone asks and getsanswers that are so simple that it defies logic. One reason simply put as aquestion; whatdo men and women want more than anything else? Simpleanswer is whatthey don’t have! So is this a question of opposite sides attract each other oris it the basic instinct in everybody to try out new things?

What we don’t have is what we most desire to acquire: power,money, love, sex, control, security, relationship, happiness, swagger the listis infinite but it never hits the mark that bad boys can chase for good girlsand good girls chase for bad boys.

Personal tastes and traits. These tastes and traits drive aneed or a feeling that if they can attain “that” person’s love, the bad boys,the losers, the abusers, and then everything will be okay. Disproportionate setof personality characteristic in the relationship makes life more of a dramaand enjoyable for boring lifestyles of good girls. Blind fascination instead ofsome level of informed decision or ability to evaluate beyond the fun and looksdepartment is common too.

The up bring background of the good girls also counts in that some girls from an early agethrough exposure to an abusive childhood or an early trauma. Watching orbeing on the receiving end of verbal, emotional or psychological abuse from afather, brother, step father, even the occasional lover or date of a parent canleave its scars on the inside, even if there aren’t any on the outside. At the end of the day several truths are evident. Whatever we arefamiliar with we seek out and whatever we practice we become good at. Victims will find that they are attracted to what they are familiar and havepracticed with or what they didn’t get resolved in the past and therefore badboys find that they always attract good girls.

Women have innate desire to domesticate or train the bad boyto be seen as “woman enough!” in control. The problem is that it’s much liketrying to teach a dog to talk, Since a dog doesn’t have vocal cords, no matterhow much time and effort she puts into training him, he is still incapable oftalking So the good lady ends up in a trap. It is also said by good girl that a bad boy isboth exciting and an immense project to be saved through the love and nurturingof a good woman. Of course that seldom works.

Then there are the nice girls who are very attractive. Youknow them. They’re so smoking hot that no one wants to stick a finger inthe light socket because they know they’re going to get rejected. They almostnever get asked out by nice guys and are usually judged by their looks andassumed to be conceited and arrogant. They are the ones you see hanging with agirlfriend and the average guy feels like he would never have a shot at a girllike her. They give an impression of being unapproachable. They seem to end up with one of three types of men; bad boys, geeks orfreaks. Bad boys are usually so cocky, controlling and arrogant they willapproach anyone because they are gods in their own eyes and that confidence(even if it is false) oozes from their pores. He has a repertoire of worn out pick up lines and he doesn’t care if he’s rejected since he’s after all it isonly trying to talk to you. Something is better than nothing and he knowsit.

Some good girls get attached to freaks who always stalking themand therefore they don’t have many alternatives since the freaks chases awayall the good boys. Some good girls love trying out one night fling or to be impregnated by thesefreaks before they move to the boring or backwards good boys.

Just make sure that you get the love you deserve and not thebruise that you don’t deserve

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