Why men Should Not Lie or Conceal Things From Women

Tue, 02 Feb 2010 16:32:35 EST

One of the things you have to understand about women isthis: they can feel what you feel inside, except 10 times greater.

So, if you engage in behavior... or take on an emotion... that kills attraction,she's going to feel it instantly.

One of those attraction killers is attempting to concealsomething from women that you think is a big deal, but really isn't, like some sortof perceived physical flaw or an affair.

For example, many men who use an internet dating service send pictures thatmake them appear to be who they're not. They conceal the fact they'regoing bald, conceal the fact they're short, or tell women they have anoccupation they do not. Conceal the fact that you are married or engaged etc.

Then she finds out about the concealment (obviously), and is pissed. Why? Because you tried to conceal something from her that didn't matter. She's going to find out anyways, so you should either feature it, orreframe it to yourself as no big deal.

See, if you worry about something you may think is unattractive (and try toconceal it from a woman) that worry and that concealment will kill the deal,even if what you're trying to conceal won't.

Look it, the truth is this: if you can make a woman feel chemistry and attraction,that's all that matters. You don't need to conceal any perceived physicalflaws. She'll find them attractive because she finds you attractive.

But if you try to hide or conceal things, she'll sense you're holding back andthat will kill the attraction. So don't worry, and don't try to hideanything. Just engage in attraction creating behaviors, and everythingwill fall into place.

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Why men Should Not Lie or Conceal Things From Women