Why Successful Men with looks Play Women

Mon, 25 Jan 2010 11:26:42 EST

If you think just because a guy has money and looks that hewill just attract all desirable women, then you need to tune into the show MillionaireMatchmaker on Bravo or The Bachelor.

Shows clients are good looking, mostly young, millionaires who want to meet thelove of their life and are having problems doing so. They engage Matchmakerservices so that it introduces them to a woman matched up to them--it's kind ofa done for you deal.

The dates are, of course, filmed, and that's when hilarity ensues. Obviouslythe guys are chosen to make for good TV, but that's almost irrelevant. What is relevant is watching rich, good looking guys turn into completeand utter player in front of women.

What is more relevant is witnessing the attitudes of thewomen change towards these guys after spending a few hours with them. Theystart out excited and giddy to be matched up with a good looking, successful guy,and leave downright confused and
disappointed, wondering how a guy who appeared to be so right could wind up sowrong.

It's not that these guys are turning into abusive jerks, mean spirited fools,or chest puffing show off's. Quite the opposite--many are very awkwardaround women, have no clue about what to say, and worst of all look to thewoman to lead in the interaction.

What happens is, the women quickly draw the conclusion that since theyare not experiencing any chemistry, there must be something seriously wrongwith these guys. After all, they "should be" attractive, butthey're not--they're repulsive, and once that line
is crossed, all bets are off.

If you haven't watched the show read news, you should tunein and watch it. It will prove to you once and for all that looks and moneyhave little to do with attraction, and behavior has everything to do withattraction.

These guys have the wrong behavior, and it kills attraction each and every timeregardless of their external advantages. But as the saying goes "Easy come easygo" Only the right behavior creates attraction, They take advantages ofeach other... nothing more, nothing less.

So, tune into the shows or watch your men with womenadvantage around your area. At the very least, you will learn something-- how to attract women... and that not a bad place to start.

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Why Successful Men with looks Play Women