Recent articles by Judy H. Wright aka Auntie Artichoke.http://www.trcb.com/en-Us60Fri, 10 Feb 2012 01:04:28 ESTCopyright 2012 Judy H. Wright aka Auntie Artichoke, TRCB.com All Right Reservedhttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/entertaining/electronic-free-activities-for-families-that-build-social-skills-9374.htmIf you are like most parents, grandparents, teachers today, you probably think that children are watching way too much television today. Not only are they sitting on their rear ends inside, when you can get them outside, they are playing video games on their cell-phones or other electronics. So, not only are they not getting sufficient exercises and breathing clean air, they are also becoming more and more isolated from each other and the family.Fri, 01 May 2009 10:41:15 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/entertaining/electronic-free-activities-for-families-that-build-social-skills-9374.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Entertaininghttp://www.trcb.com/self-improvement/grief-loss/comfort-care-means-relief-from-pain-not-a-cure-for-those-who-are-terminally-ill-9372.htmComfort care means COMFORT, not cure. Our scientific and medical cultures are trained and geared toward cure, treatment, and results. Medical personnel want to fix people and find answers. Some will feel that somehow they have failed their calling if they do not keep searching and attempting to find a "cure." It is often difficult to move from this modality into comfort care only.Fri, 01 May 2009 10:40:35 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/self-improvement/grief-loss/comfort-care-means-relief-from-pain-not-a-cure-for-those-who-are-terminally-ill-9372.htmTRCB.comSelf Improvement / Grief Losshttp://www.trcb.com/health-and-fitness/medicine/when-the-search-for-cure-ceases---pallative-care-8567.htmFamilies often struggle with the need to be sure everything has been done that can be done their terminally ill loved one. It can be very difficult for the patient and family members as they transition from making decisions toward cure to making decisions that will help to allow for a comfortable and peaceful death.Thu, 16 Apr 2009 18:22:37 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/health-and-fitness/medicine/when-the-search-for-cure-ceases---pallative-care-8567.htmTRCB.comHealth and Fitness / Medicinehttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/conflict/communication-skills-to-help-you-stop-fighting---conflict-resolution-in-relationships-8571.htmWhen two people are just starting a relationship, they do their best to present only their best and most attractive attributes to the other party. For the relationship to continue to evolve both want to feel appreciated, admired, validated and wanted.Thu, 16 Apr 2009 18:21:14 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/conflict/communication-skills-to-help-you-stop-fighting---conflict-resolution-in-relationships-8571.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Conflicthttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/fatherhood/fathers-and-sons-why-boys-need-role-models-8569.htmLeopold Mozart maneuvered his son all over the world showing him off and forcing his way into places that would advance the career of his son. Joseph P. Kennedy began grooming Jack F. for the American presidency when his oldest Joe Jr. was killed in World War II. Thu, 16 Apr 2009 18:20:23 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/fatherhood/fathers-and-sons-why-boys-need-role-models-8569.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Fatherhoodhttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/fatherhood/why-fathers-matter-to-kids-8568.htmThe family is the foundation of life. It is the basic organization and where family members learn what is expected of them in life and their part in the scheme of things.Thu, 16 Apr 2009 18:11:22 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/fatherhood/why-fathers-matter-to-kids-8568.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Fatherhoodhttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/fatherhood/10-ways-for-a-dad-to-say-i-love-you-to-his-children-when-he-is-away-from-them-8566.htmChildren need fathers. No matter how old the child is or how bad the relationship has been in the past. If you, as a father, have relinquished the reins of guidance because of absence you need to step back into the picture. Many men are uncomfortable mentoring, guiding, teaching and yes, loving their own children. they assume that the step-dad, teacher or coach will step in to teach their sons the ways of male-dom.Wed, 15 Apr 2009 22:49:31 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/fatherhood/10-ways-for-a-dad-to-say-i-love-you-to-his-children-when-he-is-away-from-them-8566.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Fatherhoodhttp://www.trcb.com/self-improvement/stress-management/staying-calm-when-stressed-out---what-is-underlying-emotion-8585.htmAs a parent educator and family relationship coach, I work with families just like yours and mine all over the world. When I asked participants in my parenting classes what they do when they are angry or stressed, they say that they yell, swear, throw a shoe or other object or threaten their kids with a punishment.Wed, 15 Apr 2009 18:16:47 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/self-improvement/stress-management/staying-calm-when-stressed-out---what-is-underlying-emotion-8585.htmTRCB.comSelf Improvement / Stress Managementhttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/what-do-children-need-from-parents-help-them-understand-and-express-their-needs-8586.htmWhat do children really need besides food, shelter and protection? Have you ever wondered what your responsibility is to ensure that your child will grow up to be a contributing member of society? As a mom, foster mom and grandmother as well as a family educator and relationship coach, I have learned a few things about what children really need. Surprise, it is not the latest toy or name brand clothing.Wed, 15 Apr 2009 18:10:13 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/what-do-children-need-from-parents-help-them-understand-and-express-their-needs-8586.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Parentinghttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/home-and-family/what-makes-strong-and-nurturing-families-4617.htmHuman beings have the longest dependency on others than any other living creature. We spend our lives in relationships, either toxic or nurturing. If the family of origin was not supportive and loving, we either repeat that pattern or look for other mentors and teachers.Wed, 28 Jan 2009 14:23:54 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/home-and-family/what-makes-strong-and-nurturing-families-4617.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Home and Familyhttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/raising-kids-on-a-budget---involve-the-whole-family-to-cut-expenses-4618.htmIf your bills and expenses equals more than your income, you are headed for trouble and must take steps immediately to get back on track. There must be enough coming in your household to cover what is going out in expenses. If there is a big difference between the two, then you may be headed for trouble. The sooner you can find solutions as a family, the faster you can be in a position to balance your budget.Wed, 28 Jan 2009 14:23:23 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/raising-kids-on-a-budget---involve-the-whole-family-to-cut-expenses-4618.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Parentinghttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/encouraging-words-to-promote-positive-action-in-children-4619.htmEncouragement is the process of focusing on your children's assets and strengths in order to build their self-confidence and feelings of worth.Wed, 28 Jan 2009 14:23:00 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/encouraging-words-to-promote-positive-action-in-children-4619.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Parentinghttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/to-do-list-for-parents-written-by-kids-just-like-yours-and-mine-4620.htmDo you wish you knew what your child was thinking about you as a parent? Are you struggling with your confidence as a parent? Do you sometimes feel like you are not doing enough to help your child become a responsible member of society?Wed, 28 Jan 2009 14:22:25 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/to-do-list-for-parents-written-by-kids-just-like-yours-and-mine-4620.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Parentinghttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/character-traits-to-teach-and-have-what-makes-a-person-develop-valuesstandards-4621.htmCharacter is the set of qualities that make somebody distinctive. It is the outward manifestation of what you believe inside your mind and spirit. It is your nature, personality and moral fiber.Wed, 28 Jan 2009 14:21:24 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/home-and-family/parenting/character-traits-to-teach-and-have-what-makes-a-person-develop-valuesstandards-4621.htmTRCB.comHome and Family / Parentinghttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/communication/respect-versus-ridicule-giving-feedback-that-builds-up-rather-than-tears-down-4622.htmYour intention is to motivate a child or employee to do better. You are clear in your mind what you want to achieve and the behavior that you want changed. You expect to be listened to and obeyed! You are right and they are wrong. Someday, they will be grateful that you cared enough to show them what they were doing incorrectly. The only "right way" is "my way."Wed, 28 Jan 2009 14:20:34 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/communication/respect-versus-ridicule-giving-feedback-that-builds-up-rather-than-tears-down-4622.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Communicationhttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-eight-2414.htmHere is 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Home Part Eight. Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:18:51 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-eight-2414.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-seven-2413.htmHere is part seven of 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Home.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:18:38 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-seven-2413.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-six-2412.htmHere is Part six of 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Home.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:18:02 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-six-2412.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-five-2411.htmHere is 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Home Part Five.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:17:42 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-five-2411.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-four-2410.htmHere is Part four of 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Home.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:17:34 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-four-2410.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-three-2409.htmHere is part three of 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Home.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:17:27 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-three-2409.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-two-2408.htmHere is 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at-Home Part Two.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:16:28 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-two-2408.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-one-2407.htmHere is part one of 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Home.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:16:22 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home-part-one-2407.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/families-are-like-artichokes-2405.htmOur families are sometimes like the outer edges of the artichoke-prickly, hard to move, and comfortable just where they are. The only way to get the leaves and family members to become malleable and motivated is through a warm environment and taking the time and effort to work with them one by one.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 22:16:03 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/101-ways-to-get-your-kids-to-help-at-home/families-are-like-artichokes-2405.htmTRCB.comBooks / 101 Ways to Get Your Kids to Help at Homehttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/building-self-confidence-with-encouraging-words/nurturing-children-with-love-and-respect-2397.htmWhen you become a parent remember: To be in your childrens memories tomorrow, you have to be in their lives today. Our words, reactions and non-verbal language skills are very powerful tools, especially with impressionable children. When we pause and think before correcting and/or providing feedback on what our children are doing, we can choose positive reinforcement over negative putdowns.Mon, 17 Nov 2008 18:14:53 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/onlinebooks/building-self-confidence-with-encouraging-words/nurturing-children-with-love-and-respect-2397.htmTRCB.comBooks / Building Self-Confidence with Encouraging Words