Recent articles by Dr. Joseph Abraham.http://www.trcb.com/en-Us60Sat, 26 May 2012 08:09:12 ESTCopyright 2012 Dr. Joseph Abraham, TRCB.com All Right Reservedhttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/enhancement/separation-while-your-marriage-counseling-is-in-process-14196.htmWill separation help or hurt the marriage counseling process?As a Psychologist who practices as a Marriage Counselor as well as a Life Coach and professional Relationship Advice provider I may quickly support a separation, for example when one spouse is living in an intolerable situation in the marriage. But fortunately enough, these are not the majority of cases I have encounteredSat, 22 Aug 2009 14:13:27 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/enhancement/separation-while-your-marriage-counseling-is-in-process-14196.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Enhancementhttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/conflict/start-marriage-counseling-only-when-you-are-ready-14029.htmAlmost every relationship encounters rough waters. Some will need professional involvement. If you decide to start professional Marriage Counseling with a marriage counselor, psychologist, or life coach, please know that a pre-requisite is not only the fee but the beneficial process of all parties.Here are five questions you should ask yourself prior to this process; be sure you put your 4 yes answers and the 1no at the right places. Sat, 22 Aug 2009 13:22:51 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/conflict/start-marriage-counseling-only-when-you-are-ready-14029.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Conflicthttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/relationships/the-six-steps-you-need-to-walk-for-your-marriage-counseling-journey-13807.htmSix steps of my marriage counseling processes are reviewed; the various qualities of being a marriage counselor, a psychologist, a life coach and a relationship advice provider are outlined. Thu, 30 Jul 2009 16:07:38 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/relationships/the-six-steps-you-need-to-walk-for-your-marriage-counseling-journey-13807.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Relationshipshttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/marriage/modern-marriage-counseling-has-a-100-year-of-theory-11914.htmWhat Do I Do and Why as a Marriage Counseling Professional? In order to be creative, good and effective Psychologist, Life coach and Marriage Counseling practitioner (which means: help to bring a change), I am also required to be a good student. Not all wheels could and should re-invent themselves. What do I do and why as a Marriage Counseling professional has a 100 year of theory history.Fri, 03 Jul 2009 21:29:05 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/marriage/modern-marriage-counseling-has-a-100-year-of-theory-11914.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Marriagehttp://www.trcb.com/women-interests/women-interests/how-to-use-principles-of-learning-from-psych-101-to-refine-marriage-counseling-12086.htmAn effective Psychologist, Life coach and Marriage Counseling practitioner (which means: help to bring a change), should always remember the first year in college, where the basic psychological principles were presented. Not all wheels could and should re-invent themselves. What do I do and why as a Marriage Counseling professional has a sound foundation, once basic Principles of Learning are applied. Tue, 30 Jun 2009 01:11:48 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/women-interests/women-interests/how-to-use-principles-of-learning-from-psych-101-to-refine-marriage-counseling-12086.htmTRCB.comWomen's Interests / Women's Interestshttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/communication/old-dream-analysis-for-current-marriage-counseling-needs-11019.htmAccording to Freud, dreams messages are expressed indirectly because many of them are threatening or shocking to the conscious personality. This assumption is the link between the traditional Dream Theory material and current modern counseling processes.Sun, 07 Jun 2009 00:42:43 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/communication/old-dream-analysis-for-current-marriage-counseling-needs-11019.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Communicationhttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/commitment/infidelity-do-you-need-marriage-counseling-or-a-transforming-life-coach-10629.htmAt this point K. stopped. I remember a childlike look of hope in her eyes as she sat there waiting for my response. It seemed she was trying to convince both herself and me that that's all it really was, just a haircut'. I knew as a Psychologist, Life Coach and Marriage Counselor that it was not just a hair-cut'. There is unfortunately no easy way of telling someone that.Thu, 28 May 2009 14:20:28 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/commitment/infidelity-do-you-need-marriage-counseling-or-a-transforming-life-coach-10629.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Commitmenthttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/sexuality/the-unpredicted-marriage-counseling-assessment-9695.htmAs a Psychologist I started thinking objectively. What are the real issues occurring here? My client of course was agitated and feeling despair about the whole situation but what was the underlying cause for it all, I wondered. After a little more counseling time with N. it became obvious to me that the biggest issue for HER was the issue of trust. Trust is of course key in any relationship. But what was HIS issue? Wed, 27 May 2009 17:45:38 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/sexuality/the-unpredicted-marriage-counseling-assessment-9695.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Sexualityhttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/readiness/the-psychologist-relationship-advice-expect-and-make-him-do-it-9728.htmThe ground for a mutual Marriage Counseling work was established. My professional Psychologist assessment triggered the husband to join and participate in a structured Online Marriage Counseling process. No, it was not a quick-fix Relationship Advice; but yes, it was done within less than two months; only six counseling sessions were needed in order for them to move into a different, happier and more equality fulfilling lifestyle. Wed, 27 May 2009 17:44:39 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/readiness/the-psychologist-relationship-advice-expect-and-make-him-do-it-9728.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Readinesshttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/marriage/why-individual-counseling-for-troubled-marriage-9981.htmThe Online Counseling process with J. confirmed the old wisdom that psychological processes do not erase memories; they heal them. This is being done by zooming in on the "WHY" and examining the fundamental deteriorating factors. Only thereafter the Online Counseling process can deal with the "WHAT NEXT" question, which was addressed via five sessions of Couple Online Counseling.Wed, 27 May 2009 17:41:25 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/marriage/why-individual-counseling-for-troubled-marriage-9981.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Marriagehttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/marriage/when-the-children-were-gone-the-trouble-began-10168.htmLet us try to view your husband's perceived "Quality" of your previous and current marriage relationship. Is is true that you had not yet included the sex topic in our Online Counseling dialogue? Males are very sensitive about that aspect of a relationship, I said...Wed, 27 May 2009 17:39:18 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/marriage/when-the-children-were-gone-the-trouble-began-10168.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Marriagehttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/marriage/practical-life-coach-relationship-advice-to-husbands-activate-your-parental-membership-10201.htmSince marriage is a reciprocal chain of behaviors, there are a lot of actions and behaviors that you could do that have the power to trigger your husband to transform his attitudes and parental style. Lead him to learn to enjoy his kids and help you both to enjoy each other in the process!Wed, 27 May 2009 17:34:54 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/marriage/practical-life-coach-relationship-advice-to-husbands-activate-your-parental-membership-10201.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Marriagehttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/domestic-violence/online-counseling-life-coach-beats-abusive-relationship-10329.htmThere is no Life Coach cook-book that contains Relationship Advice solution for an unhealthy abusive relationship. Long term Marriage Counseling is usually required. As a Psychologist and Online Marriage Counseling provider I regularly come across people who think that the solution to their marital problems is a click, call or just an email away.Wed, 27 May 2009 17:33:38 ESThttp://www.trcb.com/relationships/domestic-violence/online-counseling-life-coach-beats-abusive-relationship-10329.htmTRCB.comRelationships / Domestic Violence