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Many families, ours included, have learned that breakfast is eaten after we are dressed and have made our beds.

Children, from 6 to 8 years of age, are at a major transition point. They are now in school full-time and feeling really grown up. They have developed the strength and physical dexterity to handle more tedious and detailed tasks. At the same time, they still have relatively short attention spans and are likely to get bored very easily.

There are a number of tools you can use to help keep job duties straight and let everyone know exactly what specific tasks require. Job charts, teaching cards and other tools help you and your children know the what's, when's and how's of the assigned tasks.

Chores are an important part of daily life. Those mundane daily jobs that seem effortless for adults to tackle can seem like insurmountable tasks for some children. Membership in a family takes coordinated effort for a household to run smoothly. Each person has a role to play and jobs to perform.

It is tempting for parents to assume ownership and responsibility for everything that goes on in the life of their child. However, when the parent jumps in too soon to solve the problem or give the answer, the child never learns to trust his own judgment and become a critical thinker. Look at the list of situations and see if you can figure out, who owns the problem?

An important part of being a responsible adult is assuming responsibility for your actions, no matter what they may be. The same is true for children. However, often children blame others, or avoid responsibility for their own actions. Why could this be? It's because they have probably received negative reactions when they admitted responsibility for a mistake.

# It is sometimes easier to do the chores ourselves than get the kids to pitch in. Is it worth it to expect household help from all members of the family? Yes, it provides benefits for everyone. The goal for parents should be to do less for their children so they have more time to do things with them. By working together as a family, we learn life skills and to assume personal responsibility.

Increasing evidence suggests that rich stimulation early in life affects the intellectual development of children. Children need as much encouragement as possible to try new tasks. They also need to learn from doing. Only in this way can they come to know about their surroundings and how they will personally affect them. In fact, it's never too early to start working on your child's self-image and self-confidence.